Saturday, August 14, 2010
月有阴晴圆缺，人有悲欢离合
An acquaintaince of mine has lost his girlfriend in a fatal accident in Malaysia, reported in the news not so long ago. I had wanted to send my condolences on his Facebook but was lost for words; it'd be hard for him to follow whatever we'd wanted, in his best interest, to tell him to. I might be able to empathise and imagine the grief he is suffering but I am definitely unable to fully understand exactly how he's going through now, since I've never gone through it. So messages like "stay strong!" are a tad too superficial though necessary for him to know that his friends are always there for him. After all, only he himself knows the wonderful times he has once had with her, and all of which are now embedded within him as his most precious memories. Jia you, my friend!
Closure.
I've fallen in love for this word.
Perhaps it's my way of escaping the reality but it makes my life more bearable.
The society is too complex and my heart has to experience too much of the different kinds of emotions.
But I know that I can handle this, just that I tend to whine before executing what I need to do.
I am thankful for I have been quite lucky and smooth-sailing all this while in life.
ORD soon and I must keep myself busy...
Closure.
